“How hard is too hard?” It is a fair question, and one schools and families are asking more than ever. Parents want their children to be successful. Teachers want students to learn. Students feel the weight of academics, activities, and expectations. In the middle of all of this, difficulty can begin to feel like the enemy.

Scripture offers a different perspective. In James 1:2–4, we are told to “consider it pure joy… whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance.” Growth, both academically and spiritually, often comes through challenge, not comfort.

While parents may shed a few tears when their kindergartener heads off to the first day of school, for students, the biggest transition in learning comes much later. Students often find that the move from middle school to high school is especially daunting. These rising freshmen are full of hopes and dreams, as well as fears and freedom. Here are five tips that can help any rising freshman make for a smooth transition into the high school years.